Our Teachers Are People Too

“Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery” ~ Charles Caleb Colton

Throughout my life I have been extremely fortunate to have teachers who in my opinion have been the best of the best…whether I was competing my horses with a 5 time Olympian such as Anne Kursinski; building a business with personal mentors such as Bob Proctor, John Asaraff or Zig Ziglar; or delving into my own personal journey of self discovery with my shamanic teachers Alberto Villoldo, PhD, and Oscar Miro Quesada.

Over the last 20+ years I have heard or listened to comment after comment from people who had no personal knowledge of “who” these and other teachers are at their core, yet felt they had a “right” (and I use that term loosely) to degrade, criticize and tear apart with their own biased judgment, fears and projections.

I have been taught over the years to not “engage” when I hear these comments…. but if I don’t engage or defend what my own beliefs are on the matter, am I not colluding in the other person’s “story”? At what point do I stand up and say “this is not acceptable…and you are out of line”?

Time after time I see people on Facebook or other social media channels picking apart a teacher’s quote or maliciously making a snide comment to make the teacher appear out of integrity or even wrong. And why is this even necessary? Do these people who stand in the shadows and criticize others have the courage to develop their own research and studies; write books on their personal discoveries; travel exhausting schedules for talks or trainings; or put themselves on the line day after day to spark even one little flame within a stranger amidst the crowd? NO… they don’t…

Instead, they pick apart every word spoken to find fault and justification in their own minds for what they are condemning in a teacher/mentor’s words because they hide in their own shadows of disdain.

Are these people so naive as to think that EVERY book or word is an ORIGINAL thought? From the moment we are born we learn by imitation. I can’t even begin to tell you how many times I have heard Bob Proctor or Zig Ziglar joke about “borrowing” a story in their speech from one of their colleagues! Imitation truly is the sincerest form of flattery!

We learn by imitating others from birth…and through experience and knowledge we pick up from family, friends, mentors, teachers and life.  This is a life long process.

Maybe it’s time people get off their self righteous soap boxes… and look within. Before spouting off a judgment or criticism about another, look at them as a mirror to see what is being reflected back to us for our own knowing. Listen to the words and ask yourself how they may resonate in your own life… I think you may be surprised at what you hear…

~ by ConnectTheeDots on April 28, 2012.

4 Responses to “Our Teachers Are People Too”

  1. Great post Holly! I’ve always found it interesting that people want to put teachers, celebrities etc., on a pedestal and then take shots at them for being human. I believe any time we are doing that it is because we are uncomfortable with our own humanness. Perhaps the better path as you suggest is to look within when we have those impulses. Although I think you have to have a certain level on consciousness to even understand that and many who attack simply aren’t “there” yet. Now the big question is-do I point out to people that there is another way or send love energy their way and love to whatever I see in them that is also in me? Such deep work comes up in my judgment of “those people” who judge the teachers, I’m now once again looking at the mirror. Thank you!

  2. So true. Look in the mirror and know thyself – you may find that you are more alike than different when it comes to others. Genius is patience!

  3. Great job, Holly!

  4. Hi Holly!
    Great posting.
    Nailed it.

    Munay Sonqo,

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